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Tuesday 15 September 2009

woman marriage at the age 107 yrs

Published in the Hindu Wook Kundor says she feels "lonely" during her husband's absence
A 107-year-old Malaysian woman has said she wants to get married again, for the 23rd time, as she fears her husband wants to leave her, says a report.
When Wook Kundor married four years ago to a man 70 years her junior their wedding photos made regional media.
But now she fears her husband will not return home after completing treatment for drug addiction in Kuala Lumpur.
She told reporters she felt "lonely" without her husband, ahead of the Muslim feast at the end of Ramadan.
'Insecurity'
Wook Kundor, who lives in northern Kuala Terengganu state, said she planned to visit her husband - Muhammad Noor Che Musa - if her neighbours would drive her to the capital, where he is receiving voluntary treatment.
She said she would re-consider her plans if the 37-year-old told her he still had feelings for her.
Speaking to The Star newspaper in Malaysia she said: "Lately, there is this kind of insecurity in me.
"I realise I am an aged woman... My intention to re-marry is to fill my forlornness, and nothing more than that."
Her husband, who used to be her lodger, had previously said it was "God's will" that he fell in love with his wife to be.

I am really puzzeled to understand the motive behind Mrs Wook Kundur intention to get married for the 23rd time and that too when husband is alive. Her explanation that her husband will not come back when he comes out his addiction doesn't sound truthful and not acceptable especially in muslim religon..I wonder what has happened to the 22nd husbands?Are they alive or not ?not mentuioned.surely her intention is not sex related.why then is it just for security or have male companion camouflaged as husband to serve as an errand man? May be she has enormous wealth that she ewants her estate to be looked after her demise. Indeed I am perplexed.

6 comments:

kuppusamy said...

Doctor Sir, She is correct wants partner until her death. I lost my wife before six months, now i feel lonely even though i am staying now with my widow daughter. My age is 70.
Please give your idea.

Thomas C B Chua said...

Dr, in the final analysis of our existence, we have to see our own sunset.So, it is good to learn to enjoy our own company. Be reconciled to your own self. If you believe in God, get to know Him better, for you are going to spend eternity with Him.This is my 2 cents.

life after retirement said...

Dear Sri.Kuppuswamy,
REGRET THE DELAY.Humans are not immortal.I can undrestand your feeling after the loss of your spouse and living with your widowed daughter..this is the time you have to pull up yourself be optimistic .you are not lonely. you may be alone .this gives time for you introspect,meditate which will help you to realise your inner self.remember you are the moral support for your daughter.
take moderate exercise in open fresh air .this will help in rejuvenation.
God bless.DR.RAJU

life after retirement said...

Dear Mr.Thomas
very well said.during our profesional career we concentrated on material wealth,family etc.yes when alone we get an oppurtunity to realise our inner self.
dr.raju

kuppusamy said...

Doctor Sir, Thank you very much for your instructions.

life after retirement said...

Dear Sri.Kuppusamy,
nice to hear from you. keep in touch.dr.raju